Mom breastfeeding to 3-years old boy in USA
NEW YORK - offensive or not much? A woman nursing her
3-year-old son is the photo of cover of Time magazine this week for an article
on "attachment parenting," and the reactions ranged from applause to
servile shrugs.
The picture showed Jamie Lynne Grumet, 26, mother to stay at
home in Los Angeles who says her mother breastfed until the age of 6 years. She
told the magazine in an interview she gave up reasoning with strangers who see
her son and threaten nursing "to call social services on me or that
pedophilia is."
"People must understand that it is biologically
normal," she said, adding: "More people see it, the more it will
become normal in our culture. This is what I hope. I want people see it. "
Some wondered why the magazine used the photo of Grumet, a
thin blond pretty enough to be a model to illustrate the story of a style of
parenting that has been around for a generation. The issue includes a profile
of attachment parenting guru, Dr. Bill Sears, who wrote one of the bibles of
the movement, "The Baby Book," 20 years ago.
Mika Brzezisnki, co-host of MSNBC weekday morning program
"Morning Joe", suggested on air that the cover was unnecessarily
sensational, "I'll tell you why it bothers me - because this is a project
profile Bill Sears! "
Twitter, the cover has inspired X-rated jokes and concerns
that the child might be teased when he is older. But on many boards, there was
debate about whether it is OK to breastfeed beyond infancy.
Bobbi Miller, a mother of six who lives in Arkansas,
expressed his disapproval in a tweet and said in a telephone interview,
"Even a cow knows when to wean their child." On the cover, she said:
"Why would it even be there It's ridiculous It's almost on the point of
voyeurism?"..
But Bettina Forbes, co-founder of an organization called
Best Babes that promotes breastfeeding and supports women who want to
breastfeed their children beyond infancy, said she hopes the cover "will
mainstream America less disgusted "about women breastfeeding children of
all ages. "It is high time that we talk about these things," she
said.
Reaction to the coverage highlighted a cultural gap between
traditional children's education and what some considered "extreme
parenting." The philosophy of setting encourages mothers to meet their
babies every cry and form close bonds with almost constant physical contact
through "co-sleeping" (let them sleep in bed with parents rather than
in cribs) and "baby bear" (carry them in slings instead of pushing
them in strollers).
Retail chains, including Target, Wal-Mart and Safeway did
not immediately respond to requests for comment on whether the magazine, which
goes on sale Friday, will be displayed in stores.
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